“autonomy” comes from 2 words: “auto” which means “self” and “nomous” with means “law”.
Therefore, to be autonomous literally means to be “self governing”. No matter one’s background of beliefs, I don’t think many would argue that we (in the Western world) live in an “autonomous culture”. I am sitting in a coffee shop right now that offers me literally thousands of choices. I live in a country that ensures my individual rights and freedoms. I can choose where I live, how I live, what I do, what I don’t do, where to worship, what to worship, if I worship. This list of choices can easily get very long. With the exceptions of a few social rules and limitations, I am completely autonomous. Since birth (in America) I have been raised, shaped, and trained in the ways of autonomy. Even my parents, with their passionate love and desire to be very involved in my life (which I also desire), tame their desire due to me becoming an adult with a “life of my own”.
Quite frankly, autonomy scares me because of the ways in which it threatens, or maybe kills, or at least hurts, community. And community, as far as I can discern, is at the heart of God’s desire for His creation, His new-creation, the church.
This begs the question, does the church take community seriously enough? Think about. What is the CULTURE of our churches? Is it a culture of deep community- rich in fellowship, meal sharing, submission, service, friendship, love, shared time, common mission, and joy-filled relationships? Or is (your) church a culture tamed by the narrative of autonomy? – do we keep a safe distance, focus on events and services, hesitate to make claims on others’ (notice the possesive nature of “others’ “) time, choices, lifestyle, etc.
Personally, I raise these questions because I am learning more and more that I NEED community (how’s that for an autonomous statement). Let’s put it this way: if I am (if we are) going to live into our part in God’s Story, we don’t stand much of a chance without community. If we are going to love, sacrifice, serve, live missionally, partake in the life of God, etc… we are going to need each other. Frankly, a bunch of autonomous individuals that gather on Sunday mornings is not sufficient for creating and sustaining such a life. I need to be deeply imbedded in a COMMUNITY of people who share in this way of life (missional, communal, etc.). Otherwise, we will be lost to the larger “community”- a community of autonomous individuals who dabble in needs and desires of sprituality, just as much as they do materialism.